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November 2009 
What would be the hardest thing to change about yourself?
Posted on Sep 30th, 2009
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Wisdom Channeler
Wisdom Channeler
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for September 30, 2009:
I have tried to be less sensitive to the Mean People, but no matter how hard I try, I will never be "thick skinned". Any time someone attacks me verbally, with a snarling tone, my spirit crumbles. It hurts. I have learned to endure the pain with a fake grin. Either that or I out-mean them, by stripping down their barrier of cruel behavior with a psychological probe. What's really going on?
Each moment is like an eye opening into the next moment. We must open continuously to be in The Moment. http://sunnovel.com/
Each moment is like an eye opening into the next moment. We must open continuously to be in The Moment. http://sunnovel.com/
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Why would you want to change being a sensitive person?
Seems to me that more loving and sensitive people are needed in the world.
And meanness should not be something tolerated at all by anybody period. There is no excuse to be that way.
Liza
What's really going on?
Friend
Hi Sun
Yeah - I hate it when I get attacked - it hurts inside, I tense up waiting for the physical beating (the one that usually came in the school yard - all those years ago).
These days I take solace from the fact that in being open to the pain I am also open to the beauty. Building walls can seal us off from the pain, but they seal us off from everything else too. So a little bit of pain is not too much of a price to pay for all the beauty that comes along (same general principle applies to trusting people).
Arohanui
Ted
your words are a God send.
Angels you are.
None of us wants to see one of our own suffer.
I love you.